Most guys are always looking for a Nicki Minaj in our society, never doing the simple maths involved. you are obsessed with the idea of nicki Minaj, which is about the same time that every other guy is, you set out on an ultimate search right about the same time every other guy is, you find it hard to get a Nicki (because of insufficiency), and suddenly you are frustrated and you take it to the woman who is in love with you, or staying with you so menopause doesn't alter her life plan, and you start telling her hurtful things about her body, telling her how she is obsessed with cooking and eating,telling her how repugnant her phobia for the gym is, telling her that she is the reason you cheat, because she doesn't make any effort to look good, bla bla bla....... My issue here is the response we ladies produce.
Now am not going to teach a woman how to run her home or relationship, but, i am more concerned on how you take criticism. of course for your own good you can cut down on the amount of food you consume, you can start working out for your own good as well,right?. But when you take it to the next level of going under the knife,then you are a lunatic,who is one step close to committing suicide. you are a doll to you inferiority complex.
i often hear ladies say," i got the implant because of my man"," i got this tattoo because of Jacob" that is wrong on every level. first of all, you are not married to Jacob yet, ( which is the worst case), and even if you are married to him, the word DIVORCE is as common as the word money. what makes you think that a man who wants you to change for him, cannot get another woman to do that? doing what he wants cannot keep him. the moment he wants you to take things to a dangerous level, then Honey, he doesn't love you, your mind, your head can stop their tricks now, it is a clear issue. there is no guarantee for marriage, it is either you are lucky or you are not. Life continues, face it.
If you have always wanted to be all natural till your dying day, then be it. when you allow everything everyone says to you into your head, then you are going to keep going under knife for ever. Ladies learn to be bold, stand on your decision, and put your foot down on decisions.
