When you look in the future, do you see a future without him? Is he a negative force to you? Does he feel right? Do you hate to have a vacancy so you let him stay? Do you need something right/better? Do you think u deserve something better? Do you think he can never change? Are you staying with him because you are afraid of change?Are you afraid to be alone? Do you hate to step out of your comfort zone? Do you hate to start from the beginning? Do you think it's hectic to go on dates again? Talking about yourself to a new one? Will it kill you to watch him go?
Well ladies and gentlemen, these are the questions I can come up with when someone says 'I can't leave him' honey, do you even look around you? Your happiness might just be next door, or on the next avenue, I understand that you have spent a lot of time with him, he knows you inside and out, he is a familiar face, but are you happy? Is he the one? You are simply dating him now, make this conclusions before getting married to him and after two weeks you realise that his is not the one, you destroy the idea of marriage for the people who are looking up to you, the will always make reference back to say. If you dnt think he is the one, then make up your mind now and change it.
Don't wait till it's wedding day and you run away, or you have to break up an engagement. Don't be a drama queen, you are not married to him yet, it's a lot easier to do it, don't stay out of pity, do it today, and don't get married yet, stop ruining the idea of marriage for the girls and boys looking up to you, some people actually belive in love, don't ruin it.
