When did this happen? When did I wake up to kids, and errands, and restlessness? What ever happened to the love I have for my husband? We use to be so inseparable, when it was just the both of us, starting our lives, living on love,couldn't wait to get back home and get in bed with my husband and hitting that thing like my life depended on it.We were all eachother had, we couldn't even imagine how we had survived without the other.
Where did it all start to fall apart? Where did we take the first wrong step? how did I let the love for my husband fade away? Oh... I know. my hubby and i decided it was time to re procreate, tongues were wagging, we were growing cold around eachother, we had a lot of comparisons, the house was becoming empty,even though it is the same old house we have always known. The kids came in and took all of our attention, our time, our money, they took over our lives. Well at least that was all I could come up with, until I saw our new neighbours, a family of five that just moved into the next flat, they had three kids and they are still in so in love. It is a sif the kids never even came, this accountant husband and his nurse wife went in dates, took very good care of their kids, and still had the time to perform impeccably at work.( All though the husband is paying much attention to the concubines). That's by the way, the main aim her is,
I think we all grow lazy and old and quickly just accuse the kids of taking the attention we had for our spouses before the kids arrived, and I clearly think it's not fair to easily find an excuse to such a vital part of marriage, this is why a smiling husband at work will just come home with a frown to the amazing wife.
Men, take ur wives out, buy her beautiful outfits, encourage her to look good, remind her that she is not old yet, workout with her to lose those baby fat, and back in shape. Drop the spare tyres and bring her along to drop hers.
Ladies, respect ur husband, buy him expensive gifts when you can, prepare his favourite when he deserves it, take care of the kids, quit nagging,always make extra box to support the family, stop eating like you are about to leave planet earth to a place where food doesn't exist, work out with your husband and lose those ugly fat, put yourself in a hot Ass outfit,make ur home beautiful, never stalk your husband always look good and finally wear a perfume.
Remember that it was never the kids' fault..... don't you dare blame those kids for your incompetence.
