This very important break I went home and had a date with this very 'not so fine' guy who felt very good about himself, and wouldn't say one paragraph with out being very insulting, those days I didn't hold back my thoughts, so I ended up making him feel bad. Did I regret it?? No. Did I feel bad? No. Was it deserving? Yes. Shld I hv controlled the speech? Yeah of course I shld hv.. so I guess we dnt hv to allow ppl push you into saying things that you told urself that u wldnt say....